VICTORIA NACHOS

*originally published 06/06/2012 Rejection is a part of life.  Everyone experiences it.  Everyone doles it out.  Accept it.  Learn from i...

*originally published 23/05/2012 It always starts innocently enough.  He askshow is your day going? and I think howtedioussweet.  But if w...

*originally published 21/05/2012 The message reads:  What are you wearing? And it's your move.  The board is set.  The pieces are all lin...

*originally published 17/05/2012 If dating were a sports team, its mascot would be the butterfly. Which may explain why lately every date...

*originally published 15/05/2012 A conversation. It seems so simply, so easy, so... unattainable? And the irony is that I'm actually not ...

*originally published 07/05/2012 It's been a long time coming. I've been meaning to write it for ages. But somehow I just kept putting it...

*originally published 04/05/2012 At this point, it was about 8pm.  I had spent the first half hour waiting for him and the second half de...

*originally published 02/05/2012 This post continued from -The Mess:  a New "Something" in the Mix Have you ever gotten a present, like s...

*originally published 30/04/2012 And then it was April. Guy #1 emailed.  It was eloquent.  It was adorable.  He was going back to London....

*originally published 26/04/2012 January was all about finalizing grad school applications and the disastrous effects of dating CryBabyRo...

*originally published 17/04/2012 I saw you.  A question.  A promise.  A few words in a newspaper. I saw you.  When I peeked in your bedro...

*originally published 29/03/2012 Flirting, for me, is a bit like a bridge over troubled waters.  On one side the grass is green, the fore...

*originally published 26/03/2012 It can be really hard to explain my relationship to flirting.  But when has that ever stopped me right?!...

*originally published 10/03/2012 The logic behind the claimNice guys finish last is so flawed I hardly know where to start (but start, I w...

*originally published 25/02/2012 Iwant to be going out on dates.  Lots of dates.  Iwantto be having fun.  Lots of fun.  Instead I find my...

*originally published 21/02/2012 Life is what you can live with. That's what I always say.  And somewhere inherent in that statement is t...

*originally published 16/02/2012 I LOVE BEING SINGLE.  No, seriously.  Ireally love being single.  And not in that knee-jerk-look-at-me-I...

*originally published 04/02/2012 For the beginning of this second date withCryBabyRomeoCLICK HEREor if you missed the first date with him...

*originally published 03/02/2012 Dating can be verysnowball-y.  A little bit ofrevved up enthusiasm here and a smidge ofwell what can it ...

*originally published 28/01/2012 Because I said I wouldand a person is nothing without their word.  So whenCryBabyRomeoasked me out, I sa...